Toilet trained now??
Yes Ms.Aadya..
Remember the Diaper-making? So,when I told her,it was a tissue and not a diaper,she didn’t believe me.She had to try it.I was on the phone..and saw her running back and forth,pulling a tissue from the box,on each trip..Naturally,I checked..and the sight that met me,was..lets just say not very pretty.
She actually tried to use the tissue as a diaper..and it didn’t work..so,she panicked..Needless to say,I had to clean up the mess.But,she realised the tissue wont work.So,I put her on the toilet and she did it!!
The next day,when she wanted to go potty,she asked me to put her on the toilet seat!! And then the next day..and the day after..and so,before her 3rd b’day..she was absolutely diaper-free!![Anti-jinx]
Yayyy Aadi!
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April 7th 2010-
Tested today morning..and got a BFN! no surprises there..
Nausea getting worse..I spent most of yesterday and today morning horizontal.
shoulder pain at the tip of left shoulder.sore abdomen and on and off cramping.
brown spotting yesterday night,on wiping.
Hopefully the blood test on Friday should give us an answer,one way or the other. -
In our living room,on a table rest two photos-Photos of both pairs of Aadya’s grandparents.Until recently,she used to recognise everyone,but her Nani.In her mind,Nani is her Aani..my aunt.Why Aani,I will tell you- when we were small,we watched a pakistani drama,about two girls,who used to call their aunt(masi)-Aani.After their parents death,they went on to live with her.The Aani,was so like our aunt and we wanted to call her Aani..but our suggestion was vetoed by mom..and we sulked.
When Aadi came along,instantly,both sis and I said,she will be Aani for Aadi…and thats what she is.Aani has tried to make her say Nani..but she just goes on to call her Aani..and its a fond word for us all.
So,back to the post..Nani for Aadya is Aani..and Aani is truly the best grandma ever..and she does all that my mom would have done for her..and sometimes she does even more than that..But,it used to break my heart,that she didn’t know her nani.
I asked her one day,’Do you know that is in the picture?’ She recognised her Nanu and asked me if that was Aani.Mom and aunt resemble each other.So,I told her,she is her Nani..my mumma.She asked me,’is it Aani?’ I told her Aani is my masi and this Nani is my mumma.
She wanted to know where my mumma was..I told her she was at Jai-Jai Bappa’s house.Damn..why does it still hurt so much..?
Anyway,on the day of her b’day,we were going to the temple..and she wanted to know whats a temple and we said,its Jai-Jai Bappa’s home.Suddenly she was very excited..”WOWWWWW..I am going meet my Aani..Aani is going to pick me up..” We told her Aani is in Bombay..”No picture-wali Aani”,she insisted..”you told me,Aani is in Jai-Jai Bappa house..”
I had a lump the size of a golf ball in my throat.I said..no no not the temple home,the real home,in the sky..
She wanted to know,how Aani can stay there..?We told her there was a big house for her there…Anyway,we got to the temple..attended the Aarti and we ready to leave.She refused to leave.She wanted to see her Aani..That was all I could take.I didn’t know what to answer her.DH picked her up and pointed to the sky..asked her to look for the brightest star..when she did,he told her thats your Aani.
“Really?? “,she asked excited.She then wanted Aani to come in her car..DH was so calm..he told her to look out the windshield and see the moon..when she did,he told her,Aani is right next to the moon and she will be waiting for us at home.
As soon as we got home,she got out of the car and looked at the sky..she was happy to see the moon and her Aani.She tells us,Twinkle star Aani comes to her at night and tells her to go to sleep and not trouble her mumma-papa.
Today we recieved her b’day gift from Nanu and Masi and Nanu also sent pictures of Aani..Since then,she has been excitedly showing her Twinkle star Aani to everyone on the phone and webcam..Life is good now. -
Year 2010..
At the start of the year I didn’t get any baby vibes..but in the back of my mind this year was always the year of Baby#2..we’ll see what it holds for us.
January 2010
AF didn’t show..Last AF was on November 15th 2009.
I got my hormone profile done in India and all the readings were in the normal range.
February 2010
Finally AF showed- 12th Feb.
I was marking the calendar,since december…for even the slightest of tweak..that I felt.
The details matched the details for this cycle..
I spotted twice during the cycle,with cramps and sharp unbearable pain,on the left or right side.
14 days after the second spotting,AF showed up.
We are going to use this cycle and the next few as test cycles..to find a pattern.To see if it matches.
CD#1- Feb 12th.
CD#17- Feb 28th-mild cramping
CD#23- March 6th-Slight spotting(pink)
CD#24-March 7th-Spotting..
CD#28-March 11th-Blood-tinged and Egg-white CM.(Possible Ovulation??)
CD#33- March 16th-spotting(red on wiping)
CD#34-38-Clear..no spotting..
CD#39-March 22nd-Light Brown spotting
CD#40-March 23rd-Light Brown spotting continues
CD#41-March 24th-spotting continues
CD#42- March 25th- AF day? I woke up and I thought AF is here.Light on U/w and on wiping.Nothing after that.(is it implantation?)
CD# 43-All clear..
CD#47- Test at doctor office-BFN
CD#54-April 6th-still no AF.In the meantime,
CD#29-March 13th-Extremely tired after 2 hours in the market..it was a very hot day
CD#30-March 14th- Headache after 1 hour at the town center.
from CD#31 Nausea on and off,very tired
CD#38-Achy calves and feet
CD#42-MArch 25th-hot flashes,irritation
General restlessness,lower back aches,head aches,loss of appetite,motion sickness,swollen breasts,nausea,insomnia,head rush on bending,stuffy nose.
April 2nd ,3rd,4th-Nausea after eating,tired,headaches,strong smells,Extremely sore breasts and back ache.
April5th-sore breasts,severe nausea-afternoon to almost dinner time,very tired…
